Should I? Won’t I? What if? Could do – Maybe not!
Indecision is a no-brainer – who wants it? I don’t and can get not only impatient with myself when it happens but also exhausted and become too tired to do anything anyway.
Mostly before I get to that stage though, I make a decision and choose one or the other. Or else I let go of the’ either I choose this one or I choose that one’ AND I choose neither.
I do nothing at all. The difference is I am choosing to do nothing at all rather than putting all the pressure on me to choose.
It might not make sense and it does to me!
Another way is to take charge of my reality – this is how it is right now. Accept it and move on.
I’ve moved on to, ‘Do I really need to do this at all?’
If my answer is Yes, then I will do it or plan how I am going to do it and then do it.
If my answer is No, then I will take it off my list. Already I will feel lighter.
So simple, and saves my energy as those times of indecision are when I feel I have lost my way. I go round in circles and don’t know what to do and so my life becomes a bit messy.
It is so frustrating and it only gets better when I acknowledge that I don’t know which way to go –what to choose – then I can do something about it.
Finding our way when we are off track being indecisive doesn’t have to be a painful experience. It is often as simple as having the courage to admit that we are lost, and searching for the truth in any situation.
So how are you when it comes to making decisions?
